Oh okay, my bad. I appreciate it! And I agree, it’s really ridiculous and not cool.
We’re talking about the Brallon moment from Sunday night where Dallon groped Brendon’s crotch.
Hold on, are you seriously trying to say that this blog is responsible for throwing around the words “abuse” and “rape” when it was going around all over tumblr before someone even came to me and asked about it? Because if so you have some facts seriously backwards. The only reason I even MENTIONED it is BECAUSE people have been suggesting that what happened was similar to rape and that it was abusive. I AM SIMPLY RESPONDING TO QUESTIONS.
Have a nice day regardless.
The people in this fandom really just need to learn how not to over analyze every single little thing that is done or said.
I’ve seen posts from people in the tags about their shows,(the ones that have happened since that night) saying that there was Brallon. So, obviously the push wasn’t as negative as everyone is assuming.
Agreed. I guess it just depends on the perspective. Clearly a lot of people think it looked bad. To be honest, when I first saw it I was pretty upset about it, because I thought Brendon had pushed Dallon away just because he was there, you know? But that was before I saw the full video where he does a backflip right after, and it made sense. I still wish Brendon would have done at least something to involve himself in the moment, but it makes perfect sense that he needed Dallon to get the fuck off him so he could do a backflip. I honestly can’t picture a reality where Brendon was or is in any way upset with Dallon for touching his crotch without warning, I really can’t. I know their history and personalities too well, we all do, at least those of us who care to.
I dunno. I get where everyone else is coming from and what it looked like, but you have to analyze it and understand it in full context before jumping to conclusions or assuming things. Or whatever, do what you want lol. I’m not trying to cause any trouble here, just stating what I believe and know.
Yes indeed! Here’s one:
I literally could not agree more. That’s exactly how I feel. It’s crazy to think that all of a sudden, after a good 4 years of stage gay between those two, it’s somehow abusive. I’m sorry but no, just… no! Do you know nothing about this band?? Come on! Brendon has groped Dallon’s crotch WAY more times than Dallon has groped Brendon’s, BELIEVE IT. I think it must be the confusion over Brendon pushing him away, because yeah out of context it definitely did look like Dallon came up and touched Brendon inappropriately and Brendon pushed him off. Out of context it looks very wrong and sure, could definitely be considered abusive. But IN context, these two guys have been groping each other on stage (and hopefully off winkwink) for a full presidential term and Brendon was about to backflip off that platform. It feels like people either don’t want to believe that’s why Brendon pushed him off because they want to tear down Brallon, or just Dallon, or because I guess they just don’t know Brendon and Dallon’s history and whole relationship on stage… I don’t know, that would be a pretty big oversight. But it would seem like once the context was explained to people they’d say “oohhhh yeah, he was about to do a backflip” and let it go. Then again, this is the Panic! fanbase on tumblr we’re talking about…
Anyway. I fully 100% agree and feel you, anon.